20 posts tagged “submission”
Crashing a Hen Party
11th October 2009
Singapore
I think we may have found the second chick central in Singapore. I went there to meet my gurl and girl friends for a usual Saturday powwow. Lo and behold, when I stepped into Ootique there was a sexy dance class in progress. Alex & Shirley from SDAM (www.sdam.sg) joined our Sat night drinking session. I finally got to meet Alex whom I have had only perved on his facebook. He's an awesome person in real life and looks so much better than the pics. Warren & partner joined in a little later. A quick kiss to my favorite in-house Sexologist, Dr. Martha Lee (www.eroscoaching.com), who saw to our creature comfort. Michelle, Ootique's owner (www.ootique.com) sported a new sexy blond look. Gosh, I wish I could just take these two back home with me. Once we were all settled down, we didn't get to talk too much as our heads were permanently tilted towards the the pole dancing class and the ensuing hen party. Gosh, I am so addicted to women! The bevy of women were driving me nuts. There were a couple of women in there that looked like magazine models.
In the little discussion that we had, we did firm up a few things on Halloween night. Shirley said that she will get back to me on the bulk discounts for SDAM's Halloween night. She told me that SDAM faces a big challenge on their 16th October ALTERNATION event in DXO (http://www.dxo.com.sg/index/index.aspx). Shirley said that she was confident that they will see about 80 pax but DXO, which is owned by NTUC, expects a minimum of 100 pax in order to continue making the space available to SDAM. So if anyone of you loves goth fetish art & indie music, write to Shirley (http://www.facebook.com/people/Shirley-Zhong), alex (youknowjustwho@hotmail.com) or Saito (slave@sdam.sg) or just go to their website to findout more about ALTERNATION (http://www.sdam.sg/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=441).
As for our joint SM & trans halloween night, please do check our networks.
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For more on Asia's alternative lifestyle:
Goths & more: http://www.sdam.sg , www.sdam.asia
Transgender network: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls, http://groups.yahoo.com/bangkoktrans, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/chinagurls
BDSM network: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Eros coaching (the only one of its kind in Singpaore): www.eroscoaching.com
Ootique: www.ootique.com
Singapore: August BDSM Munch
28th August 2009
Singapore
2 weeks before our munch, we still had not found a suitable place to host this month's BDSM munch. Our beloved bar, DYMK, was moving to a new location. Thus, the hunt for a new home started. Our SM moderators and community suggested, short listed and debated. But the finicky group could not settle for a place. The last few days to D-day, we finally decided on a place called Oohtique (http://www.oohtique.com/parties.asp). A few of the moderators reconnoitered the place and gave their thumbs up.
It was my first time in Oohtique and it was love at first sight. The place is private, cosy and most importantly classy. Oohtique is a gurls dream come true: a bar attached to a private shopping mall. Oohtique sells exquisite lingeries, imported dresses and decadent TOYS :-). The 70% discount sign just made this gurl drool. I finally met the OMG super gorgeous owner, Michelle, and her sexy assistant.
This August munch easily saw 25-30 participants with luminaries like the chairman of SDAM, gifted artists, busy execs and a founder of an SM bar in Thailand. There were plenty of hooks & crannies in Ootique for people to chit-chat privately. There was a lovely massage cum bondage bed in the main lounge. As the night wore on, people loosen up with Oohtique's cocktails and chilled beer. The ambience was the perfect mood setter for play. Master Alex (our very own Shibari expert) worked his ropes on hapless Annie. Before too long, Annie was hogtied on the bondage bed. We got to try all kinds of wonderful toys brought by Master JP. Mistress Karen did a demo on how to properly use the crop and flogger. Ouches & ooohs filled the room. The newbies watched with mouth opened and the lifestylers smiled. Of course, there was the constant SSC reminder (safe, sane & consensual) generously dished out by the moderators.
Ootique was kind enough to keep the place open until the last of us left. It was a perfect evening in a perfect place that set the mood for kink lubricated by delicious drinks served by the sexy Oohtique team.
For more information on our alternative lifestyle social network, please visit our associated sites:
Singapore BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
SE Asia BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
Singapore's Dark movement: http://www.sdam.sg
China BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Ootique & Ooh louge: http://www.oohtique.com/parties.asp
Shanghai: first BDSM meet of 2009
31st January 2009.
Shanghai, China
It was the first the BDSM meet in for the Shanghai BDSM group for 2009. It started out a little slow. Mistress Fifi and Nicole were afraid that due to the Lunar New Year golden week, they would be the only two kinksters there. 
The gorgeous Goddess Qing and Her slave, michelle, came by to check out the scene. Soon switch G and the sultry Mistress Woo joined the party. Slave jojo, slave michelle and slave roland had more than they bargained for when they 'volunteered' themselves as the Mistresses' guinea pigs ... er...."bondage models." The three slaves were calling out, "救命 (jiu-ming)," in perfect Chinese. So it seems that we have found the best way to teach lao-wai's how to speak Mandarin with perfect Chinese accent. They were lucky as they have experience Mistresses as play partners.
Vision, co-owner of Frangipani, got into the act. "好玩儿 (hao wan'er)," exclaimed Vision as he got the hang of using the crop. Not too bad for a first timer!
Fifi explained the concept of a SAFE word in Chinese to the people who stood and watch with mouth gaping from the balcony.
Frangipani Bar: http://www.dianping.com/shop/1959004
China BDSM group (English): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Southeast Asian BDSM group (English): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
Singapore: Lace 2 Lace Party
Singapore, 14th December 2008.
Our deepest apologies for those that came to this party. Our usual space on the third floor at Backstage were renovated and we were not informed ahead of time. We were at the balcony for the most part until 10:30pm, we got a table in the bar. There were several people who came earlier. Sorry to have missed you if you couldn't find us. The blonde mascot was late.
Without
our usual space, there was no chance for us to strip down to our intimate wear.
We should have renamed this party, wear your lace inside your clothes and keep
your clothes on party. :-(
Plan B kicked in. Once we had our table, we commenced with the main event
which was to celebrate Ivy's birthday. Ivy Sr. is one our lovely SGGURL
moderator who we have had the pleasure of knowing more than a year ago. We still
remembered Ivy Sr. was dress as a wicked witch with a Jaws head magic. She was
in the original pic that graced our SGGURL's site when it first started which we
took at MOX. It's hard to believe that the year had gone by so quickly.
We had a round of agave fire water (80 proof) on the house after the cake cutting. That was enough to loosen up everyone especially the resident land croc. Nic was busy trying to figure out the laces underneath everyone's clothes. See photo with a piece of thread still stuck in Nic's teeth when she took a chomp out of Trisha's bras strap.
We were in good spirits after the shots of tequila, we made our way to Cows & Coolies to meet up with Becky. There was some serious pool competition going on. Destinee tried her hand at pool. We were wondering if she was playing pool or just looking sexy.
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For more on Asia's alternative lifestyles, please visit us at:
transgender support and social sites: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz, http://groups.yahoo.com/bangkoktrans .
BDSM groups: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork,
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Singapore: AUGUST BDSM Munch
Singapore, 28 August 2008
If you have a choice to watch bad TV on a Thursday night or come to a SM munch, which would it be for you?
28 people chose the latter (pictures not posted as requested). There were quite a few newbies in this meet. We had to make sure that they were not in the wrong place. There were two groups of very nice looking people and a sexy couple sitting quietly in one corner. Nicole gave them a quiz: does a BDSM meet stand for "Business Development Sales Marketing" meet, "Big Daddy Small Mama" meet, or "Bondage Discipline Sado Masochism"? Luckily, the newbies answered correctly. They were introduced to several toys two of which were from auction from Mistress Cyra. Most of everyone could not guess the use of the hot-icy stimulator. A few thought it was a magic wand. Most of the newbies thought the penis gag was something they stick in their other holes....OO000oooooh oh. Nic naughtily introduced the crop and her version of the 'friendship' bracelet to the newbies. They had loads of fun with the toys.
We had a good representation of moderators who kept the party safe, sane, legal and fun. Our dear founders MJ, Sir Alex, Hendrik, Mistress Karen, and the team from SGGURLS were there to make sure that people didn't feel bored. After a few drinks, people started getting a little more relaxed; the mingling started. Some of the slaves got a little naughty raring the Dominants to get a go at them. That night we had Master R & slave, Master Richard & His haarem (no kidding, Master Richard brought his whole haarem), Master Brian & slave, Master John & slave nina, Master Alex & haarem, Hendrik & plenty of his Sales Marketing friends, andy, sWitch Dyna, and many more people whose names escape me at the moment.
The night was filled with bondage, spanking, caning, teasing, and merri-making. Since DYMK closes at midnight, all the kinksters had to leave the magic kingdom. See you all again on the last Thursday of next month.
We would like to thank the DYMK team and management for supporting SM meets.
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DYMK bar: http://www.dymk.sg/
Singapore BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
SE Asia BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
China BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
It just gets better and better ..
29th May 2008
Singapore
I want to thank my dearest kinky friends for making the Thursday BDSM meet at Backstage a super block buster. Besides being such a fantastic night, the imposter from Collarme who called herself Mistress ichilli had been banished by the Collarme.com operators. I owe a lot to my friends who helped me reclaim back what's rightfully mine. You're all the best. And also my deepest gratitude goes to my knight in shining armor, k0021789, who first alerted me to the theft of my picture.
The party would not have been a party without all these gorgeous kinksters Chloey, the gorgeous C+C, Sir Alex & slave W, Hendrika Mistress of Scarf, slave adaline, gorgeous Ivy, the beautiful swinger couple K+C, Andy + partner, Mistress Minky, slave/switch mArtin, Brian, Jake, rope Master Max from Jakarta, sWitch Kaila, ... (please spank me later I forgot many other names). There was a rope showdown between Master Alex and Master Max. Their styles of tying were very different and both were just as effective in rendering the slaves helpless. Master Max just came into town and was gracious enough to come to our event. He demo his quick western style of tying. Master Alex uses a more careful Japanese Shibari style bondage. Scarf Mistress Hendrika showed that using her silken ties, she could just be as effective as the Masters and their ropes. She employs an intricate web of silk and softness to bind her slave. Mistress Minky had poor Ivy to experiment on. She had her hands full as her slave is a slippery eel. Ivy called herself the houdini of Sggurls. We'll see about that the next time Ivy when I bring my chains and lock.
In between the rope bondage, we had several discipline implements lying about. Before long, we had people spanking each other's butt. All in good fun of course.
Though the room at Backstage was small, it was cozy and the privacy the small space provided us was great. We got to know each other a lot better. There were a few newbies that joined us and we had to repeat our mantra: always make sure that your SM play is "SAFE, CONSENSUAL, and SANE".
We also woud like to thank Terrence of Backstage bar for handling all the logistics and making us feel really comfortable. Our poor friend is already so skinny, he must have burned 2 billion calories just from the thousands of times he had to climb up and down the stairs to take our orders.
For more on our BDSM societies, please visit the following sites:
Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
SE ASIA: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
China: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Fetish Lingerie Night
Singapore, 10-11th May 2008
What does Saturday, fetish, kink, lingerie and Singapore have in common? Five words: fun, fun, fun, fun, and fun. Is Singapore happening or what? With F1 and IR looming on its horizon, the SM community is adding excitement and spice to Singapore by staging its on kinkilicious fun fetish lingerie night at Backstage Bar. A few of the gurls were really excited to meet the gorgeous Mistress Minky and a very beautiful mix SM couple; no photos shown as per their request. We were treated to a nice peek inside the intricate rope work worn by a very beautiful (maybe a sWitch) slave girl. The rope work was superb. A single rope criss-crossed beautifully across the naked flesh.
The gurls were really nervous about the performance despite chugging down quite a fair bit of alcohol. At 10pm, the place was still very crowded, the 'victims' ...sorry.... 'performers' begged to postpone the show to one an hour later. At 11pm, the place was still crowded. The gurls again pleaded to postpone the show to midnight. Come midnight, the crowd finally thinned out and .... woo hoo... total mayhem...
What happened after the lingerie show was SM mayhem. Everyone who showed their bum got a taste of the flogger and the paddle. It was sin, sin, sin, fun, fun, and more fun. One of the slaves had so much fun that she fell asleep from exhaustion. We thought of selling her to some slavers but she was drooling quite badly so we thought we just let her sleep it off and we have to respect our almost retired veteran :-P.
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For more on BDSM, please visit our clubs:
Singapore BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
SE Asia BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
CHINA BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Singapore Trangender society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Stick and stone ......
...may not hurt me ...
....but with ropes that bind,
, and crops that can swish through the air like a samurai sword...
will melt my heart.
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BDSM in ASIA: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
BDSM in CHINA: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
BDSM in Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
Transgender in Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Singapore: Blink Blink bind bind Party
Singapore, 26 April 2008.
The theme "Blink blink & Bind Bind: time to find Your slaves and your Dominant" was a blend of fashion and fetish. It allowed people who are novices in SM to see how easy it was to bring in everyday accessories into SM play.
This is how this party worked. Slaves & subs wore two metal bangles one on each hand. Dominants brought locks with them and if they found a sub of their licking the place the lock on their chosen subs bangles.
Sounds simple and easy? It is but the ice had to be broken first. We were very lucky that night since we were given a private party space on the third floor. The room was provided us with better intimacy. The group was little nervous and shy at first. That quickly changed when the locks started being issued out. There's just something inexplicably erotic about locking up a sub's bangles and seeing their submissive demeanor thereafter.
What ensued after the locking up ceremony was a Saturday worth looking forward to. Every got a taste of being a Dominant or submissive in a game of chance.
Crops, chains, canes, ropes, gags, and whatever else that comes to the mind of our Mistresses and Masters were used to put the sub in their rightful place. There were spanking, foot worship, boot worship, caning, bondage, gagging, hog-tie, extreme bondage, and many more fun SM adventures throughout the night. No rest of the wicked!!
For more on our BDSM activities, please see the wonderful events posted in the following sites.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
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