3 posts tagged “masochism”
Shanghai: first BDSM meet of 2009
31st January 2009.
Shanghai, China
It was the first the BDSM meet in for the Shanghai BDSM group for 2009. It started out a little slow. Mistress Fifi and Nicole were afraid that due to the Lunar New Year golden week, they would be the only two kinksters there. 
The gorgeous Goddess Qing and Her slave, michelle, came by to check out the scene. Soon switch G and the sultry Mistress Woo joined the party. Slave jojo, slave michelle and slave roland had more than they bargained for when they 'volunteered' themselves as the Mistresses' guinea pigs ... er...."bondage models." The three slaves were calling out, "救命 (jiu-ming)," in perfect Chinese. So it seems that we have found the best way to teach lao-wai's how to speak Mandarin with perfect Chinese accent. They were lucky as they have experience Mistresses as play partners.

Vision, co-owner of Frangipani, got into the act. "好玩儿 (hao wan'er)," exclaimed Vision as he got the hang of using the crop. Not too bad for a first timer!

Fifi explained the concept of a SAFE word in Chinese to the people who stood and watch with mouth gaping from the balcony.
Frangipani Bar: http://www.dianping.com/shop/1959004
China BDSM group (English): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Southeast Asian BDSM group (English): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
Singapore: July BDSM Munch
Singapore, 31st July - 1st August 2008
We had our meet for the first time in DYMK bar. Since it was the bar's second day after its opening, the bar was still relatively unknown and it afforded a lot of privacy. There were close to 30 members (pics not shown as requested) that showed up coming and going at different times during the munch. The participants for the meet were made out of an even mix of men, women and tgurls (10:10:10) where there were more sWitches than subs or Dominants. In this meet, the majority of the SM'ers had at least 5 years of experience in various aspects of their kink. There were quite a few new faces that night and some old faces that we thought had dropped off at the edge of the world. We were also very glad to see the new faces from our last meet that attended their second meet. It was very gratifying to hear that they enjoyed this meet as much as the previous one. Master Richard who attended our meet for the first time said, "I almost gave up on meeting true kinksters in Singapore. I have been on Collarme for three years and I am fedup. Tonight gave me some hope. It's nice to see that there's at least an underground SM scene."

We were all anxiously awaiting for our century year old founder (MJ) to show but when when DYMK gave us the boot at midnight, our grand old Master still hadn't shown up. He must have had a bout of alzheimer or forgot where he left his walker again. The meet was quite casual until Master Alex brought out his ropes. All the gorgeous shy slaves scurried away and hid at the back corner of the bar while Nic went hunting for victims ..ahem...models. We found three brave models to endure tight bondage, Mistress Karen's tickling come spanking, Nic's riding crop and wooden hair brush, Master Alex's whips, riding crops, etc. It was bondage mayhem. The bar closed at midnight otherwise the meet would have gone on till much later.
On behalf of our Singapore kinksters and some of our friends from overseas, we like to thank the DYMK management for being supportive of our BDSM event.
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BDSM doesn't mean "Barnie doing SM". It is an acronmy for "Bondage, Domination (or also Dungeon), Sado - Masochism"; "Bondage, Dominant/submissive & masochism". BDSM should always be consensual (both parties agree), sane and safe.
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For more information on BDSM, please click on the following BDSM society's link: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
A gift from SGGURLS
When words can't beat pictures. Here's what I have to say with pictures: 

My favorite BA stewardess....

When leather meets lace, you'll have the party posse...
When the lady meets the Mistress....

Slaves for sale....

Southeast Asia BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
China BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Singapore tgurls society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls