18 posts tagged “femdom”

29th May 2008
Singapore

I want to thank my dearest kinky friends for making the Thursday BDSM meet at Backstage a super block buster. Besides being such a fantastic night, the imposter from Collarme who called herself Mistress ichilli had been banished by the Collarme.com operators. I owe a lot to my friends who helped me reclaim back what's rightfully mine. You're all the best. And also my deepest gratitude goes to my knight in shining armor, k0021789, who first alerted me to the theft of my picture.

The party would not have been a party without all these gorgeous kinksters Chloey, the gorgeous C+C, Sir Alex & slave W, Hendrika Mistress of Scarf, slave adaline, gorgeous Ivy, the beautiful swinger couple K+C,  Andy + partner, Mistress Minky, slave/switch mArtin, Brian, Jake, rope Master Max from Jakarta, sWitch Kaila, ... (please spank me later I forgot many other names). There was a rope showdown between Master Alex and Master Max. Their styles of tying were very different and both were just as effective in rendering the slaves helpless. Master Max just came into town and was gracious enough to come to our event. He demo his quick western style of tying. Master Alex uses a more careful Japanese Shibari style bondage. Scarf Mistress Hendrika showed that using her silken ties, she could just be as effective as the Masters and their ropes. She employs an intricate web of silk and softness to bind her slave. Mistress Minky had poor Ivy to experiment on. She had her hands full as her slave is a slippery eel. Ivy called herself the houdini of Sggurls. We'll see about that the next time Ivy when I bring my chains and lock.

In between the rope bondage, we had several discipline implements lying about. Before long, we had people spanking each other's butt. All in good fun of course.

Though the room at Backstage was small, it was cozy and the privacy the small space provided us was great. We got to know each other a lot better. There were a few newbies that joined us and we had to repeat our mantra: always make sure that your SM play is "SAFE, CONSENSUAL, and SANE".

We also woud like to thank Terrence of Backstage bar for handling all the logistics and making us feel really comfortable. Our poor friend is already so skinny, he must have burned 2 billion calories just from the thousands of times he had to climb up and down the stairs to take our orders.

For more on our BDSM societies, please visit the following sites:

Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs

SE ASIA: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork

China: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

Singapore, 10-11th May 2008

What does Saturday, fetish, kink, lingerie and Singapore have in common? Five words: fun, fun, fun, fun, and fun. Is Singapore happening or what? With F1 and IR looming on its horizon, the SM community is adding excitement and spice to Singapore by staging its on kinkilicious fun fetish lingerie night at Backstage Bar. A few of the gurls were really excited to meet the gorgeous Mistress Minky and a very beautiful mix SM couple; no photos shown as per their request. We were treated to a nice peek inside the intricate rope work worn by a very beautiful  (maybe a sWitch) slave girl. The rope work was superb. A single rope criss-crossed beautifully across the naked flesh.

The gurls were really nervous about the performance despite chugging down quite a fair bit of alcohol. At 10pm, the place was still very crowded, the 'victims' ...sorry.... 'performers' begged to postpone the show to one an hour later. At 11pm, the place was still crowded. The gurls again pleaded to postpone the show to midnight. Come midnight, the crowd finally thinned out and .... woo hoo... total mayhem...

What happened after the lingerie show was SM mayhem. Everyone who showed their bum got a taste of the flogger and the paddle. It was sin, sin, sin, fun, fun, and more fun. One of the slaves had so much fun that she fell asleep from exhaustion. We thought of selling her to some slavers but she was drooling quite badly so we thought we just let her sleep it off and we have to respect our almost retired veteran :-P.

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For more on BDSM, please visit our clubs:

Singapore BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs

SE Asia BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork

CHINA BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

Singapore Trangender society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

I am glad to be alive up to now and be blessed with the friends all over world. Hitting the big 24 means it was time to reflect.

I have had so much fun all over the world. From Europe to Japan to Australia. I would like to go to the US and the Middle East. These places seems quite far but one never knows. In Singapore, I collared a beautiful slave who just happened to be my best tgurl friends.

She's a delicate slave. Unfortunately most of my slaves has a lifespan of 3-4 months. I think I am too devious as a Mistress. The problem of making your best tgurl friend your slave is to ride the line between friends and slave. Which do you keep? 

I am a lifestyle BDSM'er and not a pro. I receive so many mails a day from slaves wanna-be asking me to be their Dominant. After more than five years into this lifestyle, I stop reading the mail and just put them into the thrash bin. I am very selective of my slaves and Dominant. Yes, I am a sWitch. This means that I sub to the right person. I do have several Dominants whom I love and I am still considering their offer to go full time.

Yes, I am a kinky transgender that rides the grey world of topics tabooed by society. This makes living worthwhile. Most people go through their lives like automaton. Waking up, going to work, go dinner, go gym, go bath, go sleep. Only one day they find themselves being too old to do what they really want to do.

So live life with no regrets, make every day count. Am I going to give up being Kinky?...LMAO. If I am going to hell for what I am doing, I'll be the queen of hell. If I am slated to go to heaven, I'll be the kinkiest angel whipping heaven into shape.

Happy year of the rat.