19 posts tagged “domination”

11th October 2009

Singapore

I think we may have found the second chick central in Singapore. I went there to meet my gurl and girl friends for a usual Saturday powwow. Lo and behold, when I stepped into Ootique there was a sexy dance class in progress. Alex & Shirley from SDAM (www.sdam.sg) joined our Sat night drinking session. I finally got to meet Alex whom I have had only perved on his facebook. He's an awesome person in real life and looks so much better than the pics. Warren & partner joined in a little later. A quick kiss to my favorite in-house Sexologist, Dr. Martha Lee (www.eroscoaching.com), who saw to our creature comfort. Michelle, Ootique's owner (www.ootique.com) sported a new sexy blond look. Gosh, I wish I could just take these two back home with me. Once we were all settled down, we didn't get to talk too much as our heads were permanently tilted towards the the pole dancing class and the ensuing hen party. Gosh, I am so addicted to women! The bevy of women were driving me nuts. There were a couple of women in there that looked like magazine models.

In the little discussion that we had, we did firm up a few things on Halloween night. Shirley said that she will get back to me on the bulk discounts for SDAM's Halloween night. She told me that SDAM faces a big challenge on their 16th October ALTERNATION event in DXO (http://www.dxo.com.sg/index/index.aspx). Shirley said that she was confident that they will see about 80 pax but DXO, which is owned by NTUC, expects a minimum of 100 pax in order to continue making the space available to SDAM. So if anyone of you loves goth fetish art & indie music, write to Shirley (http://www.facebook.com/people/Shirley-Zhong), alex (youknowjustwho@hotmail.com) or Saito (slave@sdam.sg) or just go to their website to findout more about ALTERNATION (http://www.sdam.sg/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=441).

As for our joint SM & trans halloween night, please do check our networks.

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For more on Asia's alternative lifestyle:

Goths & more: http://www.sdam.sg , www.sdam.asia

Transgender network: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls, http://groups.yahoo.com/bangkoktrans, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/chinagurls

BDSM network: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

Eros coaching (the only one of its kind in Singpaore): www.eroscoaching.com

Ootique: www.ootique.com

11th July 2009

Singapore

I-S, Singapore's lifestyle magazine, wanted to find out if Singapore was a boring place to live in. They sent their reporter to checkout the local SM scene. We did promise I-S that their reporter will be tied up with his job. I think the I-S editor had no idea that we meant it literally. Master Alex (our Moderator from Sg) and Master Max (our Moderator from Jakarta) did most of the major bondage work. Nic did her impression of a local series called Red Thread using red ropes to tie three models together. In the end we're not quite certain what the I-S write and his photographer friend thought about the SM scene but I am sure we made their evening interesting.

To find more about the BDSM scene in Asia, please go to the following links.

SE Asia: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork

Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs

China: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

SDAM: http://www.sdam.sg

11th July 2009

Singapore

I-S, Singapore's lifestyle magazine, wanted to find out if Singapore was a boring place to live in. They sent their reporter to checkout the local SM scene. We did promise I-S that their reporter will be tied up with his job. I think the I-S editor had no idea that we meant it literally. Master Alex (our Moderator from Sg) and Master Max (our Moderator from Jakarta) did most of the major bondage work. Nic did her impression of a local series called Red Thread using red ropes to tie three models together. In the end we're not quite certain what the I-S write and his photographer friend thought about the SM scene but I am sure we made their evening interesting.

To find more about the BDSM scene in Asia, please go to the following links.

SE Asia: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork

Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs

China: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

SDAM: http://www.sdam.sg

Singapore, 14th December 2008.

Our deepest apologies for those that came to this party. Our usual space on the third floor at Backstage were renovated and we were not informed ahead of time. We were at the balcony for the most part until 10:30pm, we got a table in the bar. There were several people who came earlier. Sorry to have missed you if you couldn't find us. The blonde mascot was late.

 Without our usual space, there was no chance for us to strip down to our intimate wear. We should have renamed this party, wear your lace inside your clothes and keep your clothes on party. :-(

Plan B kicked in. Once we had our table, we commenced with the main event which was to celebrate Ivy's birthday. Ivy Sr. is one our lovely SGGURL moderator who we have had the pleasure of knowing more than a year ago. We still remembered Ivy Sr. was dress as a wicked witch with a Jaws head magic. She was in the original pic that graced our SGGURL's site when it first started which we took at MOX. It's hard to believe that the year had gone by so quickly.

 We had a round of agave fire water (80 proof) on the house after the cake cutting. That was enough to loosen up everyone especially the resident land croc. Nic was busy trying to figure out the laces underneath everyone's clothes. See photo with a piece of thread still stuck in Nic's teeth when she took a chomp out of Trisha's bras strap.

We were in good spirits after the shots of tequila, we made our way to Cows & Coolies to meet up with Becky. There was some serious pool competition going on. Destinee tried her hand at pool. We were wondering if she was playing pool or just looking sexy.

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For more on Asia's alternative lifestyles, please visit us at:

transgender support and social sites: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz, http://groups.yahoo.com/bangkoktrans .

BDSM groups: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

Singapore, 31st July - 1st August 2008

We had our meet for the first time in DYMK bar. Since it was the bar's second day after its opening, the bar was still relatively unknown and it afforded a lot of privacy. There were close to 30 members (pics not shown as requested) that showed up coming and going at different times during the munch. The participants for the meet were made out of an even mix of men, women and tgurls (10:10:10) where there were more sWitches than subs or Dominants. In this meet, the majority of the SM'ers had at least 5 years of experience in various aspects of their kink. There were quite a few new faces that night and some old faces that we thought had dropped off at the edge of the world. We were also very glad to see the new faces from our last meet that attended their second meet. It was very gratifying to hear that they enjoyed this meet as much as the previous one. Master Richard who attended our meet for the first time said, "I almost gave up on meeting true kinksters in Singapore. I have been on Collarme for three years and I am fedup. Tonight gave me some hope. It's nice to see that there's at least an underground SM scene."

We were all anxiously awaiting for our century year old founder (MJ) to show but when when DYMK gave us the boot at midnight, our grand old Master still hadn't shown up. He must have had a bout of alzheimer or forgot where he left his walker again. The meet was quite casual until Master Alex brought out his ropes. All the gorgeous shy slaves scurried away and hid at the back corner of the bar while Nic went hunting for victims ..ahem...models. We found three brave models to endure tight bondage, Mistress Karen's tickling come spanking, Nic's riding crop and wooden hair brush, Master Alex's whips, riding crops, etc. It was bondage mayhem. The bar closed at midnight otherwise the meet would have gone on till much later.

On behalf of our Singapore kinksters and some of our friends from overseas, we like to thank the DYMK management for being supportive of our BDSM event.

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BDSM doesn't mean "Barnie doing SM". It is an acronmy for "Bondage, Domination (or also Dungeon), Sado - Masochism"; "Bondage, Dominant/submissive & masochism". BDSM should always be consensual (both parties agree), sane and safe.

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For more information on BDSM, please click on the following BDSM society's link: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

29th May 2008
Singapore

I want to thank my dearest kinky friends for making the Thursday BDSM meet at Backstage a super block buster. Besides being such a fantastic night, the imposter from Collarme who called herself Mistress ichilli had been banished by the Collarme.com operators. I owe a lot to my friends who helped me reclaim back what's rightfully mine. You're all the best. And also my deepest gratitude goes to my knight in shining armor, k0021789, who first alerted me to the theft of my picture.

The party would not have been a party without all these gorgeous kinksters Chloey, the gorgeous C+C, Sir Alex & slave W, Hendrika Mistress of Scarf, slave adaline, gorgeous Ivy, the beautiful swinger couple K+C,  Andy + partner, Mistress Minky, slave/switch mArtin, Brian, Jake, rope Master Max from Jakarta, sWitch Kaila, ... (please spank me later I forgot many other names). There was a rope showdown between Master Alex and Master Max. Their styles of tying were very different and both were just as effective in rendering the slaves helpless. Master Max just came into town and was gracious enough to come to our event. He demo his quick western style of tying. Master Alex uses a more careful Japanese Shibari style bondage. Scarf Mistress Hendrika showed that using her silken ties, she could just be as effective as the Masters and their ropes. She employs an intricate web of silk and softness to bind her slave. Mistress Minky had poor Ivy to experiment on. She had her hands full as her slave is a slippery eel. Ivy called herself the houdini of Sggurls. We'll see about that the next time Ivy when I bring my chains and lock.

In between the rope bondage, we had several discipline implements lying about. Before long, we had people spanking each other's butt. All in good fun of course.

Though the room at Backstage was small, it was cozy and the privacy the small space provided us was great. We got to know each other a lot better. There were a few newbies that joined us and we had to repeat our mantra: always make sure that your SM play is "SAFE, CONSENSUAL, and SANE".

We also woud like to thank Terrence of Backstage bar for handling all the logistics and making us feel really comfortable. Our poor friend is already so skinny, he must have burned 2 billion calories just from the thousands of times he had to climb up and down the stairs to take our orders.

For more on our BDSM societies, please visit the following sites:

Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs

SE ASIA: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork

China: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork